Sunday, April 26, 2026

Sami's Law Update - Battle in the House

The battle for accessibility continues!

On April 1st, the day before I left on vacation, I received an email from a lobbyist who represents Superintendents, Principals, and School Districts. We had talked a few times on the phone before about the bill. She had threatened to kill the bill if we didn't exclude schools, but I felt like we still had room to negotiate. Here's her email:

"We are scheduled to meet with the Representative next week. Just curious about this last amendment? Any reason schools had not been excluded? We discussed keeping lines of communication open and honest. This concerns me."

I had no idea what she was talking about. There was a meeting set up? News to me. I was frustrated that she implied that I wasn't being open and honest with her. I wasn't hiding anything. She copied a bunch of other lobbyist in the email, so I decided to respond to all of them. Here's what I said:

"Hi XXXX! You and I spoke on March 22nd and March 23rd about this bill. We discussed options and compromises and the need to be heard by Representative Briel. After we spoke I called Representative Briel. I talked to her about your concerns and how we need to set up a meeting. I then emailed you back and let you know that she wants to set up a meeting. I have not spoken to her since then and I was not aware of the meeting scheduled for next week. But I remember that is what you wanted, so that you could voice your concerns. 

When you and I spoke on the phone I asked you how many schools were going to be built in the next 10 years. I then asked how much it costs to construct a new school. We also discussed other options for changing students with diapers like using nursing stations. I asked you if you knew what nursing stations were required to have. We ended that call with some lingering questions and I felt like some things still needed to be addressed. So I went to our local schools and talked to school nurses, teachers, principals, and even a superintendent! We talked about the needs of the special needs students and how schools are supposed to provide toileting needs for them when they are students there. We talked about the costs and like you said "the burden on tax payers." We discussed options and tried to brainstorm other ways we could give some dignity to this community. Here are some things we discussed:

Cost - How much is a new school? That really depends on the size, type, and location. There are High Schools in Texas that have spent up to 100 million dollars on just their football stadiums! That puts the total bill around 250-500 million dollars! But we aren't in Texas, we are in the great state of Illinois! From what I can find a new High School can cost $320 to $385 per square foot to build in Illinois. This would put a costs for a larger hight school around 100 million dollars. If this bill passes and if the school is over 40,000 square feet and is built after January 2029 it would need to include an adult changing station. I've gone to a few websites that area run by people who are against this bill and they state that these adult changing stations would costs $10,000, so we'll use that number. $10,000 to give a High School child their dignity while they get an education at a 100 million dollar High School. 

Side note: I have friend who uses powered, height adjustable, adult-sized changing tables to change himself. He is able to self transfer onto the table from his wheelchair and change himself without any additional help. He talks about how amazing it would have been to have an adult changing station in his High School, so that he could take care of his toileting needs himself. He can! He just needs the tools! That is dignity. That is what the disabled community deserves. 

Nursing Stations - Say there is a mother with two sons. One is a High School Varsity Basketball star (B) and the other is a middle schooler who is in a special needs program, uses diapers, and is in a wheelchair (T). The mom takes T to go watch his brother play in a basketball tournament. They go to a school and are cheering on B when T has a situation and needs a diaper change. If there is an adult changing station in the school the mother can take her son there and get him changed. If there isn't then she needs to find someone who has keys to the nursing station. Even if she is able to find an administrator (Are they in the admin office? Are they watching the game?) and get her son into the nursing station there are other problems. Maybe there isn't a cot because the nursing station is too small for one. What is there is a cot but it is too high and the mother can not lift her child onto it without help (this is where powered, height adjustable tables come in handy)? And now she is left with two awful options: change her child on the floor and risk not being able to lift him to get him back in his wheelchair or let him sit in his soiled diaper. I've read through the literature and Nurses stations are not required (the word "should" comes up a lot) to have beds or cots, sinks, or places to dispose of soiled diapers.

I know what people will say - just stay home. If I want to take my child to watch his cousin participate in a wrestling tournament at the local High School, but there isn't an adult changing station there - just stay home. If I want to take my child to the park or a museum or on vacation... don't - just stay home. 

This bill is not trying to hurt people. It's trying to help them. $10,000 changing station in a 100 million dollar school - That is not a tax burden. You'd be surprised how many people think that the special needs community deserves dignity. There is a significant aging population and they don't want to just stay home. Having adult changing stations in public places are beneficial to special needs children, disabled vets, aging adults, babies, people who are temporarily disabled (did you know its easier to put in or take out a catheter if you are laying down? I didn't know that until someone told me recently!), and their caregivers.

I am a mother to a child with severe disabilities. I am his caregiver. I am so tired of changing his diaper on the floor of public bathrooms. And soon I won't be able to. My son is getting bigger and I won't be able to safely lift him off of the floor without help. Our world is getting smaller and we are becoming more isolated. It's not healthy and it's not okay.

We are on different sides of this issue, but that doesn't mean we can't talk. And it sounds like a meeting is set up! I appreciate you letting me know about it. I'm going to reach out to Representative Briel now and see if I can attend the meeting via Zoom since I will be out of town next week.

Talk to you all then!"

After I sent my email I reached out to my Representative Briel. She didn't know about the meeting either, but she said she would reach out to the lobbyist to see what was going on. I also told her that I was going on vacation but would be available by phone, email, text, etc. If the meeting was going to happen I wanted to be a part of it. 

Well, apparently the meeting between the Representative and the Superintendents happened and another amendment was made. To this day (April 26th) I still do not know what was discussed. But the good news was that the bill was moving forward and was scheduled to be voted on by the House on April 17th. 

In other good news, on April 7th the bill got a co-sponsor and she is a Republican (the Republican Caucus previously came out against the bill). I am so excited that we have a bipartisan bill!

On April 17th, Representative Briel gave a short speech on the floor of the House and then voting began.


The bill passed the House! 
72 Yeas (5 R/67 D)
18 Nays (17 R/1 D)
4 Present (4 R)
14 Excused Absence (5 R/9 D)
10 Not Voting (8 R/2 D)

Five Republicans broke with their caucus and voted Yea because their constituents asked them to. Calling your Representative matters and it makes a difference!

After the bill was passed in the House, Representative Briel put out the following statement:


I appreciate her and her staff so much for fighting for us! I know going up against an opposing caucus and a group of lobbyist is not easy, but she held to her beliefs and I love her for that!

My friend, Deepa, and I are meeting with Senator Lakesia Collins tomorrow to discuss the bill. Hopefully any opposition to the bill presented itself while the bill was in the House and all those issues were ironed out (the bill was amended four times!), but we'll see. This is politics after all and we are up against some powerful groups who view us as the bad guys for trying to make the world a little more accessible.

Please go to this website and click on "Illinois Senate" to find your Senator. Please CALL them and ask them to support HB 4379 (Changing Tables/Sami's Law).

If you'd like to read the bill, see updates, or view the witness slips, click here

Thanks for fighting with us!

Monday, April 13, 2026

Three Part Trip - Part Three: Northern Utah

On Thursday, April 9th we check out of our townhouse in Desert Color. It was a great stay! Our townhouse was great! The townhouse we stayed at was called "Laguna Beach" and it had four bedrooms, 4.5 bathrooms, a huge kitchen and living room area, a hot tub on the balcony, and kayaks for us to use at the lagoon. We were walking distance to both the lagoon and the other pool in the resort. My only complaints are that the walls are very thin (I could hear the guests in the other townhome) and there is no cell service in the community (my phone was literally in SOS the entire time we were there). The townhouse does have good Wifi which was nice since I had some work to do on my computer while I was there. 

Thanks mom and dad for booking the townhouse and for a great spring break!

After we checked out of the townhouse, mom and dad drove back to Vegas to catch their flight back home to Cincinnati. I drove north with Luke, Andie, Porter, and Kenna (thanks for letting me hitch a ride!). Before we left town we went to In-n-Out for lunch! Can you believe that I had been in the West for a week and had not eaten In-n-Out yet?! 

[Hamburger, no onions, add pickles; fry well; and a chocolate shake please!]

We then made the long drive from St George to Spanish Fork. I was so amazed at how much St George had grown since I'd been there last, but the rest of Utah is growing too. Cedar City (my old stomping grounds) is massive and there is a lot of new construction going up along the freeway.

That evening we met up with Andie's sister, Alysse, and her family at the park. It was such a beautiful night! We chatted, played games, and it was so fun to catch up!



The next day (Friday, April 10th) we met up with Chasten and Alysse and their kids on the BYU campus. Our first stop was the Cannon Center for some cafeteria food! The food was actually really good AND they had unlimited BYU Creamery chocolate milk!


After lunch Chasten took us on a tour of campus in his fancy golf cart!






My freshman year I lived in Heritage Halls, which were right behind the BYU Creamery. Years ago they knocked down the old Heritage buildings and built new ones and FINALLY they knocked down the old Creamery and built a new one. It's huge and actually has a lot of indoor and outdoor seating! 






Chasten brought me a bunch of BYU SWAG! He even got shirts, stickers, and hats for Theo and Josh. That was so sweet!

The tour was so much fun! We got to see a bunch of the buildings where I had classes and there was a lot of new construction too. I love the BYU campus. It's so pretty! 

Thanks again to Chasten for giving us a fancy tour and for the SWAG!


We hung out for the rest of the day and that night we went to a birthday party at Andie's sister's (Ashlyn) house. We stay up way too late playing card and dice games, but it was a lot of fun!

On Saturday (April 11thI went and had lunch with my BFF and BYU Freshman roommate, Lacey. It was so fun to see her! 


That night we went to CHOM for dinner 😋


On Sunday (April 12th) I went and got some In-n-Out before meeting up with Luke, Andie, Porter, and Kenna.


When I got to their condo Luke was at Urgent Care. The swelling around his ankle was getting worse and the bruising was spreading. While we waited for an update from Luke, Andie and I watched YouTube videos of all the cool rooms you can book at the Walt Disney World Resorts. 

Luke finally called and gave us the news. His ankle was broken. Luckily, it doesn't look like he will need surgery, but he will have to wear a boot for 4-6 weeks. Bummer! Sorry brother!


That afternoon we went to Andie's brother's (Rick) house and had dinner with the entire Smith family. I always love coming to Utah and spending my Sunday nights with the Smith family!

Monday morning I checked out of my Airbnb and Luke took me to the airport. I always miss my family and friends when I leave Utah. But I also miss these mountains! Did you know that Illinois is the second flattest state?! Just behind Florida! 😭 😭


Thanks so much to Luke and Andie for hanging out with me! I'll see you guys in 430 days!

Wednesday, April 8, 2026

Three Part Trip - Part Two: St George

Saturday, April 4th:

I picked up my parents at the airport and we headed to St. George, Utah. We arrived a little early, so we made a quick stop at Nielsen Frozen Custard for some delicious concrete! 



We then made our way to our townhouse at Desert Color. Upon arrival we found Luke, Andie, Porter, and Kenna!

Over the next few days we went to the large lagoon and other pools in the resort, ate snow cones, played in the sand, and watched General Conference. Mom and Andie went walking around the resort most mornings and Luke would go running. But one morning Luke fell as he was almost back to the townhouse. His ankle started swelling and bruising. Unfortunately, we would find out later that it was actually broken and Luke is just super tough and hiked to my archaeological site AND through Zion with a broken ankle! 



























We also had a visit from the Easter Bunny AND the Tooth Fairy! The kids got some fun new toys and some money!





On Monday, April 6th, I took the family out to see my old stomping grounds. For a month in the summer of 2006, I worked on an excavation of an archaeological site called Land Hill. The team I was on excavated on the very top of the hill while another team mapped the rock art site and another team excavated a site just down the hill. For my Senior Thesis I had to digitize the rock art site and do analysis on the positioning of the art to see if there was any kind of correlation. There wasn't. I haven't been back to Land Hill since I brought Josh here in 2011, so I was a little rusty. But it was so good to be back!





Since I had last been here the BLM has take over care for the site. They made trails, put up fencing, and installed signs. 




We scrambled over the rocks as I showed everyone my favorite petroglyphs. 





[I love this guy]



















We were very respectful and careful as we looked at the beautiful art. After we were done with the rocks we headed up the hill to the archaeological site that I helped excavate back in 2006. 


I showed my family some of the suspected pit houses and the very obvious storage units. I found a ton of pottery and a piece of obsidian. I told the kids they could hold onto it while we were on the site, but they had to leave it where we found it.




My first loves: archaeology and the red rocks.


Thanks to my family for humoring me and allowing me to share my passion with all of you!


After the archaeology hike I met up with one of my friends that I haven't seen in a long time. We went to the Botanical Gardens to walk around. It was so nice to catch up!

[I forgot to get a picture of us, but I did get a picture of this amazing painter]

On Wednesday, April 8th, we drove to Zion. Apparently it is now one of the most popular National Parks and we were there during the busiest time of the year! We first drove into the park to see if we could get lucky and find a parking spot. No luck there. We then drove through the town of Springdale until we found a spot on the side of the road by the second to last bus stop! 



We took the bus to the entrance of Zion where we had to get off the Springdale bus and get in line for the Zion bus. It was like Disneyland! We were in line for about 30 minutes before we were able to board a bus!


[Kenna is so strong! She can carry Porter AND Papa!]

We got off at stop #5: Zion Lodge where we did the Lower Emerald Pools hike.

















We then hopped back on the bus and headed all the way up to the last stop, #9: Temple of Sinawava. This is where the infamous Narrows hike ends (if you are coming from the top) or starts (if you are hiking up from the bottom). I hiked the Narrows back in 2008 and I was told it "wasn't that hard of a hike" and that I could "do it in your Chacos." I trusted that person, so I followed their advice. And it was a HUGE mistake. I hurt my feet so badly that I still have scars from my blisters. 

Here's a few pictures from that adventure:

[The view from the top is very different than the bottom]


[When Emily and I were just kids!]


[Blisters, bruising, and so swollen]

I honestly don't even remember most of the hike. I think I black it out from my memory because it was so painful. Maybe we should try again in 2028 as a redemption and this time we will wear boots and use hiking sticks! So, yeah. Don't hike the Narrows without the proper equipment.

Back to the present!

We walked up to the end of the Narrows and it was busy!










We saw some friends that we had made on the bus earlier in the day. I asked them how the hike was and they said they couldn't understand why anyone would do this for fun! 🤣 🤣


After testing out my waterproof boots to make sure they were waterproof (they are!) we walked back down to the bus. I asked the bus driver where the best view point was and she said to get off at stop #8 Big Bend, so we did!




I can't get over how amazing this place is!






We then caught the bus and got off at stop #4 Court of the Patriarchs. 





[There they are!]



We then made our way out of the park and jumped on the Springdale city bus. Dad was told that there was Bumbleberry pie and good burgers at Porters Restaurant so we headed there for some food!


The food was great, but unfortunately they were all out of bumbleberry pie! My dad was very sad. They did have bumbleberry icecream though, so my dad got that.

Remember when I said I didn't remember much about my Narrows hike? Well, I do remember laying on that patch of grass, unable to move, for a very long time after we completed the hike. I don't know how I got there or how long I was there. I do remember someone giving us their left over pizza, which was super nice! Katey didn't hike the Narrows with us, but she came up from Vegas to see us after we were done. And this is where she found Emily and I:


After lunch we headed back to our townhouse in Desert Color where we packed and got ready to check out the next morning.