Sunday, September 7, 2025

My First Mammogram

Monday, September 1st:

Theo was off of school today for Labor Day so Nurse Stephanie came to watch him at home. Josh worked on his Jeep while I worked in the basement.

That afternoon we went to the Hope Helps All Inclusive Playground in Coal City. The powered, height adjustable, adult-sized changing table is still not fixed, so we couldn't stay long. But Theo still enjoyed his time on the swings!

Tuesday, September 2nd:

Theo and Nurse Stephanie headed off to school while I went to the clinic to get my bloodwork done for my yearly check up. 

After school I took Theo to The Legacy Ranch to see Sherman and Ms. Kaylin. Theo did great! They have a show coming up on September 13th and Theo is going to ride with Ms. Kaylin. I'm sure he will do great!


Wednesday, September 3rd:

This morning I woke up to the best news! Northern Integrity LLC has been paid! I think that makes us a legit company!

Theo had a great day at school and he used his eye gaze to tell his teacher that he wants a pet dragon. Um... I don't think he knows that we just don't do pets around here 😬

Josh continues to work hard and he is still overseeing a big project up by the O'hare airport. Things are going well and I hope we can keep working until Thanksgiving.



Thursday, September 4th:

After I sent Theo and Nurse Stephanie off to school I headed back to the clinic to get my mammogram. The nurse that did my mammogram was really nice and super helpful. She told me to let her know if I was hurting or uncomfortable. She was able to get the four pictures and it didn't hurt at all. I'm all about preventative medicine so please go get your exams done!


Friday, September 5th:

My dad has been at our condo in Orlando for the last few days. We got a new microwave, stove, and fridge! Come and stay with us!


That night the Chargers had their season opener vs the Chefs (yes, I call them the Chefs) in Brazil and we won! WOOT! What a great way to start the season!


You know that last year the Eagles won their season opener in Brazil and they went on to win the Super Bowl... so... Go Bolts!

[Silly boys!]


On Sunday, Ms Jess stopped by to show us her new friend, Dewey! He's soooo cute! We went on a walk to the local park with Theo and Dewey. 


Dewey got tired and had to be carried a lot. He's still a baby!


Two years ago my brothers came to visit me and it took them three days to build the Lego Millennium Falcon. Now Lego is coming out with a 9023 piece Death Star! The Millennium Falcon was 7541 pieces and is HUGE! I can't even imagine how big and awesome the Death Star will be!


Speaking of Star Wars...


Sunday, August 31, 2025

Local Parks Update and Theo's New Vest

Wednesday, August 27th:

I was supposed to have a call with my Cigna rep, Michelle, today to talk about our next steps when it comes to me getting a refund from the ambulance company.

Remember we had two ambulance bills to pay from last year. One was $1609 and the other was $1710. I went back and forth with insurance and they finally decided to pay part of them. I then paid $755 to cover some more of the bill. After I paid, I learned that Cigna paid the rest of the bill! We tried for months to get a refund but the company just sent us in circles. It was a nightmare. Finally we got a hold of someone who said they would do a review of my case and we should call back in 10 days. We did. The next person we talked to said it was found that we deserve a refund and the check will be there in 7-10 business WEEKS! So, Michelle and I counted out the weeks and we had plans to call them when the 10 business weeks were up. That would have been today. But by some miracle the check showed up yesterday! THANK YOU! And this is why you have to just keep calling! It took 10 months but this nightmare is finally over!

That afternoon I went and saw my family doctor for my yearly check up. Since I'm 40 now I get to have a mammogram. Yay! I also had a pap and bloodwork done. Every thing looks good and I'll have my mammogram next week.

That night I went to a meeting at our town hall about updates they want to make to our local park. There are plans to update the park with inclusive equipment. At the meeting I spoke to the designer and a member of the panel. They did not have plans to include a powered, height adjustable, changing table but after giving them some literature and my card, they appear more open to it.




There are many parks in Illinois that are updating their equipment to be more inclusive and accessible. And that is great! BUT they are not including powered, height adjustable, adult sized changing tables. It's a common problem and I think it's due to a lack of awareness and funds.

1) Coal City Hope Helps All Inclusive Playground. Their powered, height adjustable, changing table has been broken since at least May 2024. I've called consistently and for over a year now they've told me that the parts are on backorder. Please give them a call at 815-634-8608 and ask for the powered, height adjustable, adult-sized changing table to be fixed.

2) Joliet is updating a park at the Inwood. I've reached out to them about installing a powered, height adjustable, changing table and they said they would look into it. I've continued to follow up with them but no one will return my calls.



3) Peoria TriCentennial Park. I spoke to a lady at the Park District who informed me that they are putting in a powered, height adjustable, changing table in the newly constructed bathrooms. We stopped by a few days and go and the bathrooms are still under construction. Hopefully they will be finished soon!

4) Mokena Main Park. They will be updating the park with inclusive equipment and I reached out to see if they had plans to add in a powered, height adjustable, adult sized changing table, but they do not. Of course, it's a funding issue.





If you hear of any parks that are updating their equipment to be more inclusive please let me know and I can reach out to them! A park can't truly be inclusive if it doesn't include a powered, height adjustable, adult changing table!

Thursday, August 28th:

Theo headed off to school with Nurse Stephanie, Josh went to work, and I went to see my Dermatologist for my yearly skin check. Of course I was super good in Cabo and wore SPF 70 the entire time, but my scalp got a little burned on our final day. I asked my Dermatologist to double check my scalp since that is not the first time I have burned it (I have thin hair). She looked over everything and didn't see any issues. I'll see her again in one year.

While I was in Cabo Josh pruned the bonsai and wired some of the branches. Our little tree has come a long way!



Theo has been working really hard at school and he has his good days and bad days. He's still having 5-10 observable seizures a day. The really rough ones happen when he is tired or over stimulated.


Friday, August 29th:

Theo and I headed down to Peoria to see APRN Jennifer at the Developmental Specialists' office. She is fantastic! We ended up chatting for over an hour about accessibility and Theo and Medicaid and everything else. At one point she said she wished there was a list of all the places that had adult changing tables. I told her about the Changing Spaces map and gave her a bunch of my business cards that has a QR code for the map on the back. She was so excited to share the cards with the rest of her patients! 


Remember back in 2023 when Theo got Metapneumovirus and was life flighted to Peoria and put on a ventilator? If not, you can read about it here, here, here, and here. Since then Theo has been using a nebulizer and high-frequency chest wall oscillation vest twice a day. BUT insurance didn't want to pay for a sest, so we bought two of them ("The Vest") from other special needs families who didn't need them any more. Well, The Vest worked for two years, but the wraps that we were using were really wearing down. I reach out to Theo's Pulmonologist to see if they could send orders for a new wrap. They did, but unfortunately the DME wouldn't give them to us because we were not the originally owners of "The Vest." I asked how much it would cost to pay out of pocket and they said $400 a piece. Insane. I then asked Pulmonology if we could try to see if insurance would cover "The Vest" for Theo. I know two years ago BCBS wouldn't do it (they didn't like to cover equipment), but we have Cigna and Medicaid now. They sent in the orders and within 10 days we had an InCourage machine and a fancy vest for Theo!  


[He doesn't like it]


I was able to donate one of "The Vest" to a family in Chicago and the other one was gave to a kid in Theo's class. I was able to meet his parents too and they are really nice!



Josh worked LONG hours for 2.5 days to get his Jeep back up and running. 




When he told me he was ready to "fire it up" I showed up with a fire extinguisher. You know, just in case 😬


Josh ended up doing $1000s of dollars worth of work, but the Jeep is sounding really nice!

On Sunday, our favorite construction lady from Making Home came over to see what she could do for us with the fridge/kitchen area. She had some great ideas and we are excited for her to get started! She did such a great job on our laundry room, so I have confidence she'll make our kitchen look great too!

[Let's go Bolts!]

[How cool would it be to go to a game in Brazil?!]

[I love this!]

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

HoHo's Take Cabo: Part III - Sailing and Heading Home

Monday, August 25th:

Sadly, it was our last day in Cabo. We order room service for breakfast and then headed to the lobby to catch our ride to the Cabo Marina for our Los Cabos Luxury Sailing, Snorkel, and Lunch Cruise.



We gathered at "Cabo Adventures" building and then we met our crew and fellow sailors. They took us to our sailboat where we would be spending the next few hours.




The excursion included an open bar, but it was a little choppy out, so we took it easy. I also took a dramamine 🙂


Onboard we met the Captain, our photographer, and two crew members. The photographer was awesome and took a TON of pictures, so we didn't have to worry about having our phones out.

Whenever he told us to be excited I always said "WOOOO!" It doesn't make for the best picture! Clearly Emily and Katey are much better at this!



As we were leaving the Marina I spotted a seal and then as we approached El Arco de Cabo San Lucas I spotted a HUGE sea turtle just a few feet from the boat!

[Lovers Beach]

[El Arco de Cabo San Lucas]

We took turns getting our pictures taken on the bow of the boat. The water was pretty choppy and we were bouncing around a lot!





[Another one of my "excited" poses]





We left El Arco de Cabo San Lucas and headed towards our snorkeling spot. During the 90 minute ride the crew kept asking us if we needed drinks and they brought us a snack consisting of chips, Mexican salsa, guacamole, and shrimp 😋

We sat toward the front of the boat and we kept getting splashed by the waves. The water was warm and it felt so good to be back out at sea!


We got to our snorkel spot after a fun ride! The water was still a little choppy and murky when we jumped in, but that didn't stop the fish from showing up! The crew on the boat kept throwing fish food at us so the fish would get close. Emily kept screaming (she doesn't like fish) and the guys kept laughing at us. She's a good sport!


[First one in!]

[Katey is next]

[Come on Em!]


The crew asked us if we knew the hand signs for "shark." It was pretty funny!





We didn't snorkel very long since the water wasn't very clear, so I suggested we all link arms and float together like otters.



[Our group]

We then attempted to get on the paddle board. Emily and Katey did really well!










[Katey is a pro!]





[Nice, Em!]

Katey then tried one more time and when she fell off the paddle board it hit this lady in the head. The pictures were hilarious! Don't worry, she was fine and laughing about it!






After snorkeling we all got back on the boat and the crew gave us lunch. We had a Caesar salad, chips, Mexican salsa, and pasta salad. It was all so refreshing!

After we all finished lunch the crew opened the sails and we were officially sailing! 





They had us all sit on one side of the boat and then when the sail came across we all had to duck!




I kept thinking of Bill Murry in What About Bob? "I'M SAILING!"







We made our way back to the Marina, said goodbye and thanks to the crew, and then we were taken back to the "Cabo Adventures" building. There the photographer showed us all the fun photos he took. We decided to split the cost and get them! 



We headed straight for the pool after we got back to the hotel. I wish the water was a little clearer, but other than that I have no complaints about our excursion!

[Back at the Resort with our Blue Hawaiians]


That night we went back to Blanca Blue for dinner.



The churro with icecream was the BEST!


It was the perfect final day in Cabo with my girls!

Tuesday, August 26th:

We flew out of Cabo that afternoon and made it back to Phoenix without any issues. I arrived at Midway Airport in Chicago at midnight. I got a ride home with a local business, so Josh and Theo wouldn't have to come get me.

I don't go on a lot of relaxing vacations, but when I do I realize how much I need them! It was so nice to just sit around and do nothing with my best friends. It was just what we all needed. Life can get so crazy - Emily is raising three kids on her own and starting nursing school soon, Katey just got a huge promotion at work, and I just started a business. We are all each others biggest cheerleaders and I don't know what I would do without these ladies by my side. I love them so much and I can't wait for our next adventure!